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I don't know why but dating,relationships and marriage has change so much much over the last to decades or so. We have come to a point where more than half of marriages fall apart for one reason or another. I know that relationships are hard work. It takes commitment, willpower, passion and empathy to make things work all the time. To make it a little easier I want to give you one of my secret relationship tips that will strengthen an build your relationship.
Secret Relationship Tip - A New Beginning
Do you remember when you were first starting out? How everything was so exciting and new. You were so starstruck that you completely overlooked all the little annoying things the other person did and most likely still does.
And it's not just the small things we do to annoy each other it's also the small things we say and how we say them. Unaware that we have changed "wow, you look beautiful today" to "are you seriously wearing that shirt today?" If what I am saying applies to your relationship then the two of you need to sit down and be honest about the things that have changed.
You should also take a trip back, together in you minds, reminding each other what it was you did in the beginning that created this attraction in the first place. When you know what caused the attraction and you know what has changed you can make a commitment to start over. Obviously both of you have to work on this for it to work. I can also tell you that it will not be easy. Start by forgiving each other and decide to forget the bad things in the past. Start flirting again and focus only on the special things that your partner does - this will almost automatically put unimportant things aside.
A process like this will take time so be patient. Just remember, if you take small steps every day to healthier relationship it will all ad up to a big success!
