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Abusive Relationship How to Deal With It
Nobody wants to stay together if their relationship is not in good terms. There's no peace of mind for couples who are not having a good relationships. The home becomes a haunted place, the husband goes home with a bad mode, or the wife goes home late and drunk or both. How do you feel when this occurrence is always happening in your home. No proper harmony within the family, the children are confused who to lean on, both parents are not concern the welfare of their children.
Think of it, couples who are not giving up from each others mistakes, would results to serious problems and may later on end up in divorce and the mostly affected are the children who are innocent in their teen years.
How To Deal With an Abusive Relationship
1. Seek experts advice. If you're partner is not treating you well and abusing you, the best you can do is to get the assistance of a psychiatrist or abusive relationship experts. You don't need to be abused emotionally or even mentally. This would end you into depression, the thing that you wouldn't like at the end.
2. Your will to decide. Think twice before you decide if you're ready to get out from the chain of agony and maltreatment from your partner. If you think there's no more hope for a better solution despite some remedy to save your relationship, then by all means, close the chapter of your marriage life.
3. Organize a support group. This group may either your family members or close friends who'll understand your situation. Try to get their opinion, ask their support and analyze which opinion could help you solve your relationship with your partner. Summarizing all their suggestions, you could plan out the possible solution how to deal with your abusive relationship.
4. Talk to your partner. Try your best to talk to your partner during a solemn hours, say early in the morning before going out of bed, or invite him to have a date to your favorite place while you were still in your early stage of your relationship. Iron out what makes him becomes abusive to you lately, why he's doing it to you. Listen to what he says, if it's worth his explanation, weight it out, give him more time to explain.
5. Part ways is the last solution. If all the methods to save your relationship fails, the last recourse is to say goodbye to your partner. Let him or her understand that you've done all your best to save your good partnership, but you don't want to prolong your agony.
These are only a part of what I see is the methods by which you can deal with an abusive relationship. I know there are still some more ways but I only narrow it down to these methods which I believe are most important.
