subject: How To Win Your Girlfriend Back - What Not To Do To Attract Her Back [print this page] When dealing with a breakup, it's easy to make mistakes. You just want to be able to attract her back, but sometimes, men will do the worst things possible when they are trying to reconcile with a girlfriend. Instead of focusing on what will make her want to come back, man men will try to force and persuade their ex girlfriend to come back to them. This is NOT what you want to do.
Here are a few of the MAJOR mistakes that men make, trying to woo their ex girlfriend back:
1. You cannot argue with her. Although it may seem tempting at times, arguments are what lead to permanent breakups. No matter what, you want to avoid the yelling, the screaming, and the fighting. This is not the time to allow your emotions and your pride to get in the way.
2. You cannot contact her as often as you'd like. For some reason, once a relationship has ended, most guys want to call their ex girlfriend over and over. And in today's world, it does not stop with phone calls. Text messages and emails are also a no-no. You don't want to make her feel hounded with your attention.
3. You cannot try and manipulate her. This is one of those moves that a man will make out of desperation. And desperate moves are not the best answers. If you try and manipulate her to come back to you, then you are just making it that much easier for her to walk away from you forever. Instead, your focus has to be on attracting her back to you.
