subject: Get Your Ex Back - So You Just Got Dumped...Now What? [print this page] Get Your Ex Back - So You Just Got Dumped...Now What?
Your girlfriend, boyfriend, spouse, life partner, whoever it may be, just left you. Now what? Well, that all hinges upon what YOU want to have happen next.
If you are fine with being dumped and prefer to experience the single life, do whatever you choose, I can't help you. However, if you want your ex back, I'm happy to say that I can help you get your ex back, but it is absolutely vital that you follow some simple steps.
Step 1 - Admit that the breakup was the best decision. You may be thinking to yourself "is this guy nuts? I don't want them to think that. I want them to think that I want them back". That's one of the most typical errors individuals make when they try to get their ex back.
By admitting to your ex that you agree with the break up does two things: first, you and your ex are in agreement on something, which is very likely something that you haven't done in a while, and it will probably feel genuinely good for both of you, and second, it immediately minimizes a sizable amount of the tenseness that is being experienced by both of you.
Now that you've laid the groundwork, it's time to execute step 2.
Step 2 - Actually, this is more something that you do not do than what you should do. DO NOT get in touch with your ex about anything! Sever all communication and provide her the space that she needs. This will give her plenty of opportunity to miss you again. When she begins to miss you, she will start to think increasingly more about you.
Basic human psychology indicates that we want something progressively more, the more and more we cannot have it. The more that you distance yourself from her, the more that she is going to want you back.
Think back to when you were dating in high school. Which was more exciting, the chase or the catch? The chase is always the fun part, because you're chasing something that you don't have yet, which makes you want it even more.
Step 3 - Plan the get together
As soon as you have done the two steps described above, you can start working on planning on when you should meet, where you should meet, and furthermore what should be said when you do meet up again. This will allow you to get a better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is any possibility that you and your ex will be able to get back together.
"How do I get my ex back?" can be slightly more tricky than the three steps above. Yet, they are a great start and will strengthen your prospects of winning your ex back.
