subject: It is not too late to save the marriage [print this page] It is not too late to save the marriage It is not too late to save the marriage
The society today has taken a wrong turn when it comes to marriage. It is sad to see that there are many marriages that fall apart. The church is well aware of this and they are alarmed by the increasing number of married couples choosing to divorce. If you feel like your marriage is falling apart, will you let it be and suffer the consequences of divorce or will you act now and to save your marriage just the same as saving your family?
If you are in your right mind, you know that divorcing will result to a broken family and definitely make your kids suffer and grieve with pain. If you push through with it, then you are a selfish individual. In addition to that, every aspect of your life will be in chaos like your financial life, career and so on. Divorce is not the best option if you want to be the best individual; you must repair and mend any broken relationship for marriage is sacred vow that both of you took.
To save the marriage, both partners must talk heart-to-heart. Both of you must talk the possible reasons why your marriage is falling apart. Being secretive would not help at all. Having an open communication as well as an open mind is the key to eliminate the causes of problems in a marriage and both partners must know this fact.
You and your partner must address issues surrounding your marriage that may lead to divorce. Typically, husband and wife that have experienced stress in taking care for their baby, exhaustive job, interest that is lost when it comes to sex and romance, recurring health issues, problems with extramarital affairs, depression, never-ending arguments regarding household works and chores, family finances, loss of dream as well as their identity and changes that leads to their bad relationship are some of the roots of why husband and wife fall out of love.
If these issues are not addressed immediately, your marriage may lead to divorce. In today's world it is sad to hear that divorce is rampant. Therefore, do not be a stubborn person that will just ignore any marital problems.
Marriage is a sacred sacrament that both man and woman promised to be together for the rest of their life. Being married is also a lifelong commitment that will give love to your spouse. Fulfilling this vow is what husband and wife must do.
