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What's the number one problem in most relationships?
Statistics overwhelmingly show that sexual satisfaction among partners declines the longer a relationship goes on.
Sadly, it happens silently, secretly and often without discussion: causing resentment, frustration, lack intimacy and often infidelity. Even worse, the vicious circle of not having enough sex brings around only more celibacy.
The truth is that in every relationship, one person wants 'IT' more. and even in relationships with a'routine' sex life, chances are high that sexual satisfaction is not a mutual thing.
So, you aren't getting IT enough?
If this is how you feel, then you are part of the 75% of married men and women who are not completely satisfied in the bedroom.
Men often have a chief complaint in a marriage of not getting it enough, while women are so upset about the toilet seat being left UP for the umpteenth time (as well as other things), that all sexual desire is stripped away by stress.
And while meeting in the middle would be a classic place to disrobe and have sex anyways (says the men) it can be an extremely difficult place to find in a relationship that is struggling with intimacy.
The easiest thing for both partners to do is cast blame. He says that she used to be a sex kitten in the good ol' days and she says that he used to take the time to actually make love to her, rather than get his kicks in 8 minutes flat during the spin cycle in the laundry room.
He says that she used to be open for anything and she says that she is too busy dealing with bratty kids and household chores to even think about sex. Then as usual, she goes on to say.if only he would help me more (in hundreds of ways) I would feel the love and probably be more in the mood, more often for sex. (Even if it does last just 8 minutes)
To that, he responds, if only she would give me oral sex while I'm watching Sports Center, I wouldn't be so tense and might have the energy to actually cook dinner or do the dishes for her.
(BTW MEN Saying that doing things around the house is something you do FOR HER is a BIG mistake)
You know what comes next? A heated argument that is filled with rolling eyes, stomping feet, hurt feelings, resentment, harsh words, more resentment, separate beds and definitely no sex tonight.
