subject: Alpha Male Traits And Flirting Body Language [print this page] Watch a guy with high social standingand alpha male traits (George Clooney, Jay-Z, or even the boss where you work) and you'll see that his movements are different compared to the rest of us. He gives the impression that he's in control of his life and everything around him, and because of that, females become more interested in him.
You too can create those vibes which make ladies go weak at the knees around you.
Have you ever noticed how your mates behave if they are feeling worried about something? You will see they are looking down at the ground with their arms crossed, fiddling around with things, stuttering as they talk.
And when you display that kind of body language in your own behavior, females do not want to be with you.
Compare this to popular guys who display alpha male traits. They have got chicks all around them and have some great body language going on.
So, what's the number one secret between those high status men and the beta males? You've probably already guessed... the alpha males are comfortable and in control when it comes to social situations.
This is a significant factor... relaxation is the most important mental state for you to be in.
Taking that into account, here are a few pointers for you to develop the mindset and flirting body language of an alpha male (and by the way, if you think they're difficult things to implement, you're wrong... you can make these changes starting this evening and have even the hottest girls clamoring for you to notice them):
1. Do not let yourself feel worried. Just let your worries go, since you can not solve anything by worrying. So suck it up, and quit thinking about what could go wrong. Just live life.
Of course, I know that what I just said is easier said than done (to use an old, but relevant in this example, clich). You've spent your whole life up until now dwelling on things that make you feel nervous.
In reality though what is this thing we think of as "worry"? When you think about it, it's simply the fear of what might occur in the future. Now if you look at this logically you are punishing yourself by stressing out when nothing negative has really happened. There is actually no point in worrying about thingsand being able to behave rationally and logically is one of the key alpha male traits!
To help you to deal with this and avoid focusing on your worrisome thoughts anymore, identify them for what they actually are... toxic to your mental state, then let them go.
Just by not focusing on negative outcomes that cause you to feel upset will significantly reduce your level of worrying.
2. Another tactic to relax is to breathe through your abdomen instead of your chest.
When you breathe, imagine that you are bringing air down to your stomach. Feel your belly rise and fall as you breathe.
3. Stay away from displaying nonverbal signs which make you appear worried:
- Raising your shoulders.
- Wrinkling your forehead.
- Messing around with your hands and/or legs.
- Tensing your facial muscles.
- Wrinkling your forehead.
- Fidgeting with your hands and/or legs.
- Tightening your facial muscles.
- Hunching your shoulders.
- Messing around with your hands and/or legs.
- Tensing your facial muscles.
- Raising your shoulders.
- Wrinkling your brow.
- Tightening your facial muscles.
- Slumping your shoulders.
- Wrinkling your brow.
- Messing around with your hands and/or legs.
4. Relax your body and calm your movements a bit.
Alpha males generally move unhurriedly, as if they're in control of time itself. Beta males are anxious and fidget around a lot. Imagine you are stood or strolling through a swimming pool, where your movements are slow and gradual.
5. Relax your eyelids and eyes.
Beta males hold their eyelids wide open as they are so nervous. Their eyes dart all around. Instead of acting like this let your eyelids rest. Look directly ahead of you. Only give things your attention if you find them interesting. While you are out and about, say to yourself, "I am cool, calm and collected."
6. When somebody wants your attention, slowly turn to face them.
A characteristic common to a lot of beta males is being so willing to please that when somebody calls their name, you see them spin their heads toward them unnaturally quickly.
4. When somebody calls for your attention, move your head slowly.
A trait common to a lot of beta males is being so eager to try and please that when somebody mentions their name, you see them spin their heads toward them unnaturally quickly.
5. Relax all your muscles and slow down all of your movements a bit.
Alpha males normally only move very deliberately, as if they're in control of time itself. Beta males are anxious and fidget around a lot. Envision you are standing and strolling through a swimming pool, where your movements are smooth and fluid.
6. Relax your eyes and eyelids.
Beta males hold their eyelids open wide because they are so worried. They let their eyes wander around the room and rarely hold focus on anything. Instead of behaving like this let your eyelids rest. Look straight ahead. Only pay attention to things if you find them interesting. When you are out and about, say to yourself, "I am cool, calm and collected."
4. Relax your eyelids and eyes.
Beta males keep their eyelids wide open due to the fact they're so nervous. They let their eyes wander around the room and rarely hold focus on anything. Rather than behaving like this let your eyelids rest. Look straight ahead. Only pay attention to things if they interest you. If you are out and about, do the affirmation to yourself, "I am sexy, I am calm, and I am on top of the world."
5. When somebody calls for your attention, move your head slowly.
A characteristic common to a lot of beta males is being so eager to please that when someone mentions their name, they spin to face toward the person abnormally fast.
6. Relax your body and calm your movements a bit.
Alpha males normally only move very deliberately, as if they are in control of time itself. Beta males are nervous and fidget around a lot. Imagine you're standing and strolling through water, where your movements are slow and gradual.
When you've learnt these alpha male traits you will start to feel more stress free and have better luck with women as a result, so don't delay, start today.
