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Something that a lot of guys often wonder about is how they should approach a woman they see on the street and really like. A lot of your friends will be quick to offer you advice and tell you exactly how you should do so, however you will quickly realize that the majority of men actually don't have a lot of experience when it comes to the opposite sex.
Once you start having a lot of interactions with women you will come to the conclusion that 5-10% of males are having sex with 90% of the women. This is just how female male interactions work and it is because that small percentage of males understand women and know how to treat them.
Once you understand this pretty simple fact, you will also understand why there is no Ultimate way of approaching a female and that it all depends on how you do it. I can give two guys the exact same line and I will guarantee you that they will get completely different results depending on their sub communication and confidence levels.
When most men approach females the only thing they are thinking about is that they hope they don't get rejected. Females can smell this from miles away and it is certainly not attractive that you are afraid of rejection even before you have started a conversation with a woman, it certainly doesn't show a lot of confidence and self belief. Instead you should change your mindset to something more proactive like "I wonder if there is anything interesting about this woman", "Hmm, I wonder how much she is already in love with me even though we haven't spoken" or "I wonder how long it will take before this woman invites me on a date". Going in with these beliefs will automatically make your interaction a lot more fun and you will immediately feel a difference in the way the woman will react to you.
It is important to also focus on what you can offer the woman you are approaching. This doesn't mean that you should buy her drinks or spend a lot of money on someone you don't even know. It means that you give her true value in the form of your personality and having a good time. Make sure you have a great time together when you approach her and she will automatically become attracted to you.
