subject: How to Talk to Any Guy, Anywhere – Get Into the Discussion [print this page] How to Talk to Any Guy, Anywhere Get Into the Discussion
Do you become suddenly shy and reserved when you're in the company of a cute guy? Have you tried to come up with clever things to say in order to get his attention, but your mind goes blank whenever you see him? Is this something that frustrates you because you're usually so talkative? Facing an incredibly hot guy can sometimes get the most confident girl to lose her cool. Here are a few things you can try to get the ball rolling the next time you see him.
Get ready.
First off, look at what you already know about him. If this is a guy from work, what have you heard about him? What hobbies does he enjoy? Does he play sports? What does he do on weekends? If it's a complete stranger you pass on your street at regular intervals, check out how he's dressed. Is heading out to play ball? Does he always have a fishing pole? Does he carry around a duffle bag?
These will all bring about topics of conversation that you can ask him about. Think of questions that are apt to get him talking for a while. If you can get away with asking one question and he stops and is happy to talk to you, then all you have to do is relax and listen. After a few moments, you should feel the tension ebb away and this will allow you to ask further questions or throw in your own opinions on the topic.
You'd be surprised to see how little it takes sometimes. Even relying on something basic as talking about the weather can open up a whole conversation.
Don't be discouraged is your first attempt doesn't result in a grand conversation that lasts for hours. If you're successful in exchanging a few pleasantries one day, your nerves will be calmed making your next attempt a little easier. Slowly, the amount of time you spend talking to him can escalate, and before you know it the jitters are gone and you're talking to that cute guy as though he were an old friend.
