subject: The Five Keys to Flirting With a Guy [print this page] The Five Keys to Flirting With a Guy The Five Keys to Flirting With a Guy
Is it a joke how awful you are when it comes to flirting with a guy? Have you tried a variety of tactics and they all failed? Do you feel silly when you try and it just doesn't feel like the right thing to do? Some women can flirt in their sleep. For the rest of us, we have to think about it a bit more than that. But here are a few simple tricks every woman can try.
Sounds rather silly, but the first thing that will catch a guy's eye is something that should come quite easily to you; smiling. A soft gentle smile that isn't necessary directed at anyone, but simply shows that you're in a good mood, you're approachable and you're open to the possibility of meeting new people.
Even the men who see you from a distance will glance your way.
And when they do, make subtle eye contact all while keeping that smile on your lips. You just want to hold his gaze for a brief moment, then move on. Ideally you want to break the connection first. Then return your gaze, and when he meets your eyes, hold it for a few seconds. Broaden your smile so that he knows this isn't simply a chance glance.
He'll come to speak to you and this is where you can take advantage of the crowd and noise that's around you. Stay close and get closer still when you talk to him by reaching up to talk directly into his ear. You can also use your hands to bring a point home as you speak. Pat his arm or hand as he says something that makes you laugh. Read his reaction carefully. If he should pull back, tone it down. If he's receptive of your proximity, go for it.
Throughout all this, the important thing to remember is to be yourself. You don't want to paste on a smile that doesn't feel natural to you and you shouldn't look at him with bedroom eyes if that's not really your style. Just keep it real and keep it you.
