subject: Save Your Marriage After An Affair - Some Positive Signs To Watch For [print this page] Save Your Marriage After An Affair - Some Positive Signs To Watch For
Infidelity is one of the top reasons for divorce. If you are the victim of a cheating husband but have decided to save your marriage after an affair, then you have some options to work with. You also will notice that there are some signs you an look out for that will clue you in.
A big one is if your husband came to you and confessed his affair on his own. He could have ended it and kept the secret to himself, but the guilt may have been too much for him so he came forward. Although this news will be devastating to you, it is a positive sign that he wants to come clean.
Has your husband cut off all contact with this other woman? If he has then you have a chance of saving your marriage. As long as there is no contact then no outside influences can interfere with your marriage recovery.
Your husband must be willing to communicate to you about his affair and your getting details about it can help you heal, as difficult it may be to listen. You will also have to learn to forgive what he has done, it is not something you will be able to do right away but it should be a goal.
And importantly is the commitment from you and your husband to put in an honest effort to save your marriage. It has been shown that there are many couples that pulled together after an affair and came out stronger in the end.
