subject: Instead Of Worrying About Losing Him - Make Your Ex Think He Has Lost You And He Will Be Back Fast! [print this page] Instead Of Worrying About Losing Him - Make Your Ex Think He Has Lost You And He Will Be Back Fast!
Do you know the best thing you can do after a breakup? Nothing! That's right, do absolutely nothing. In order to get your ex back, you will have to let him go. That might sound pretty confusing, since you want to get him back. But that is where you would be making a big mistake. The more you chase him and tell him you cannot live without him the farther he will pull away from you. So how are you to get the man you love back? Stop worrying about losing him and make him think he has lost you. That might sound like another confusing statement, since he broke up with you, but read on and you will see that it is not.
When he broke up with you, your ex was sure that you still loved him and would do everything possible to get him back. If you do nothing to get him back, he will be the one that will be confused. To make him desire you again, you have to show him that you accept the breakup and you do not care. Show your ex that you can live without him and he will wonder if he can live without you. This is the using the power of male psychology. Men always want what they cannot have, whether it is a car, a job and especially a woman.
When you first met him, besides your physical attributes, the fact that you seemed unattainable attracted him and offered him a challenge. Once he had you and you became too available, he was bored and went off seeking another challenge. Make yourself the challenge he is seeking and he will be chasing you again. Stop worrying about losing him and put as much distance as you can between you. He has to have the time and space to experience his life without you, in order to appreciate what he had with you. When he realizes that you were the best thing to happen to him, and he will, he will become afraid of losing you.
Go out with your girlfriends, have a good time and let word get back to your ex boyfriend. This will make him think of all of the good times you had together and he will feel left out. Your action of moving on so well after the breakup will make him feel as if you had rejected him. Seeing you moving on without him will also make him think that you might be looking for another boyfriend. He will wonder how you could have gotten over him so quickly. All of this will come about because you did not try to get your ex back. When a guy breaks up with you, the best tactic is to make your ex think he has lost you and he will be back fast.
