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Relationship
Relationships cannot be mentioned in paper, it cannot be formulated by law, and no one can mention the do's and don'ts. It's something that comes from the heart and goes to others with whom you are related to. It's a feeling between the people that they are connected. No chains, no laws, no force is required to bind these feelings of relationship. Its very light & free in nature like air. Where people can fly like birds and swim like fish, no directions prescribed where to fly and where to swim. There are no walls attached to it.
On the other side there are man made relations like brother, sister, father, mother, kids, wife. I am not saying that these relations are not good but people generically take these relations as his/her duty as if something has been enforcedon him, and he has to take care of it. Even so with this thinking blood relation are meant to be strong as a person is taught the same way since from his childhood. However in western countries & recently started in most parts of the world this culture is also losing its value.
That is of a blood relation at least it has a reason of connection. They tend to be together because they are from the same blood.
However a relationship that is meant for the procreation of this world is a husband & wife relationship. Marriage is a traditional ceremony that brings them together. How strong this relation is? Its values are detracting by every passing generation.
Two species are forced to live in a given space with a pre defined directions and the whole area is covered with towering walls. Now whether these two species have a match or not, they like each other or not; they are helpless because they are unable to come across those huge walls.
And in the present context this huge wall is our society, and species are Husband and Wife. Whatever problem they face, whether they are able to stay together or not; they can't stand against the society and live their life as it comes.
Of my opinion, these species should give their own space; there should not be any demarcation line of relationship by laws or by the society. If there is feeling in them, they stay together, or else they will be asunder.
Husband and wife top the hierarchy of this universe. If they are free and good in relationship then only their children can grow in a better environment, and if they are better, than this world will become a better place to live.
So let the relationship as a feeling that a person feels for other rather than enforcement by someone on someone to be with someone.
