subject: Flirting with A Girl Via Text Message - Essential Skill to Master in Today's Dating [print this page] Flirting with A Girl Via Text Message - Essential Skill to Master in Today's Dating
Do you realize what year it is? That's right, we're well into the 21st century here and the rules of romance are changing again. If you don't know how to flirt with a girl over text, you've got to get savvy to stay in the game. Below are 4 tips in texting game that you should always remember.
How to Begin
You met a cool girl the other night and the girl gave you her numbers. Now it's time for you to make the initial move. You're staring at your cell and you're thumb is ready to click away. Then, what do you say?
Your first message should be short, humorous and fun. Most important of all, it should not demand a reply. Do not ask her a question, even something such as "How were you feeling the following day?" Needless to say, you're text messaging her to start a long distance conversation that is going to wind up bringing you two closer together. But it shouldn't seem like that. If you seem needy, or as if you want something in exchange, it'll be a certain turn-off.
If she replies, you have your foot in the door. You can tell a lot by what she says. If it is a one word message, she is cooling you and you need to give up on it. If she writes you back a real message, all is good. But don't jump all over that and hit her with a super-long text after that. Play it cool, knowing that she's willing to keep it going.
The Magical Power Of Inside Jokes
Where do you bring the conversation? Talking about something that you have in common is a must, but there is a subject that far better than that: "inside jokes". You guys spent some time together somewhere, and if you've got a joke that only you two know, that's the best connection you have. When you talks about the inside jokes, you already have something private with her only, even though it is not something special or anything huge. Still, this is a doorstep to intimacy. This method is a great way to flirt regardless you do it via text or not.
Use Symbols And Emoticons
One of the special things text enables you to do is use symbols and emoticons. They are excellent and they help to make up for the nuances your tone of voice gives. Think about this If a girl writes "Yeah, it was fun," you can't actually tell. If she adds a little goofy smiley face, you get a better idea that she means it.
But beware overusing symbols and emoticons makes you seem like an idiot. It is great to use things like :) or "u" instead of "you," but avoid overdoing it with "gr8", "1 of a kind" or too much "ur" instead of "you're." It makes you look cheap. Additionally, don't over use exclamation points; they can make you look either cheerful or outrageous: "I had a great time yesterday!!cu next weekend!!"
Ensure that It Stays Fun And Creative
Keep your text messages fun and creative. You don't want to be a tedious texter. Short messages are simply fine. The important thing is for them to allow you to stay ahead of other men. Show her how amusing you can be, and constantly take an interest in what she's engaging in. To be fun and creative are also one of the necessity in 5 principles on how to attract a woman.
One more thing you should keep in mind is that everything you say to each other is being recorded. Watch what you write in your flirty text and make sure it'll not cause you serious troubles in the future.
