subject: Want To Win Your Guy Back After A Breakup? - How To Stop Trying And Make Him Come Chasing You! [print this page] Want To Win Your Guy Back After A Breakup? - How To Stop Trying And Make Him Come Chasing You!
After a breakup, if you are not careful, you could lose more than your boyfriend. If you let your emotions get the best of you, you could lose some of your friends as well. You will have to resist the urge to tell your heartbroken story to everyone you meet and ask their advice. This sort of action makes people uncomfortable and puts them on the spot. Especially if they are friends of your ex boyfriend as well as you. Another result of doing this is that your ex is bound to hear of how you are telling what he considers private matters between the two of you to others. This will only make him more convinced that he was right in breaking up with you.
The way to win your guy back after a breakup is to do just the opposite and show him that you are fine with the breakup. You can do this by being happy around your mutual friends and act as if you are moving on with your life without him. Never speak of the breakup or your ex boyfriend, but instead talk about new things you are doing, such as a night class you are taking to improve your job skills. Tell them about how you are working with the less fortunate and how good and useful it makes you feel. You might even give them the impression that part of your happiness is caused by meeting a great guy. Do not lie and say you are dating, just occasionally mention the name of some one you met at night classes.
When you act happy and confident around these mutual friends, they will let your ex know how well you are doing. This will make him wonder if he made a mistake in breaking up with you. He will start remembering all of the good things about you and the cause of the breakup will begin to fade away. Once your man starts to have second thoughts about the breakup, he will realize how much he misses you.
Your ex boyfriend will also be disturbed about what your mutual friends told him about thinking you might have a new boyfriend. Things are not going according to his plan and he will be getting desperate. He is beginning to feel as if he was the one that was dumped and he will not like the feeling. The only way that he can get rid of the feeling of being dumped is to get you back and he will be chasing you again.
