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You've probably thought to yourself how can I really build attraction with women without landing myself in the "friends zone" again.
Impressing women doesn't have to be complicated. What we're going to focus on is how to impress women by appealing to a natural and universal principle which is sure to arouse interst in any human being: that principle is being the exception to the norm.
Now of course, being the exception to the norm it is also possible to get yourself labeled as a weirdo by going against the norm. That's why we also want to make sure that you're different in a way that appeals to the women's natural attraction instinct, which is based on her need for safety and security.
The trouble here is most men are only looking out for themselves and their own hearts and egos.We want to make sure we are heard and understood rather than try to listen and understand. They would rather become defensive when someone offends them or disagrees with them, rather than just laugh it off. They would rather get jealous and protect their own interests when they feel threatened by another person.
The problem is that all these are signs of emotional weakness and emotional weakness doesn't make a women a feel safe. Let's not even get into talking about yourself, getting defensive when someone offends you, being agrumentative when someone disagrees with you or getting wounded by rejection which are common responses to emontional weakness. Which are just plain monotonous and expected.
If you really want to impress her, demonstrate your emotional strength first. To put this another way don't get threatened when other men come around her. If she rejects you don't get crushed or rattled. Don't you get out of sorts when she starts acting up by being bratty or she wants to test you. When you're interacting with women, don't go out of your way to try and impress her just to get your ego stroked.
Instead, take the time to listen to what she has to say and don't even give it a thought as to when it will be your turn to talk. This really is not as difficult as it may sound, it's simply a matter of making a choice. Belive me, people who truly listen are so rare that she'll probably find it refreshing. But when it is your turn to speak, be confident in yourself and this will eliminate the need to impress her.
Good luck with what you've learned and have fun getting and there and doing it.
