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If you are one of the many dating singles out there, every time you meet someone new, try to follow some simple rules. Keeping first dates as stress-free as possible is a huge factor in the ultimate success or failure of the relationship as a whole. Limiting the mistakes and your exposure to potential disaster is of primary importance. So there are three things I recommend when starting a new relationship.
First, have a realistic expectation of the relationship. Know exactly what your relationship goal is, whether casual or long-term. How does your date feel about this goal? Make sure you and your dating partner are on the same page and have the same relationship goals. Communication is key to staying in pace with your partner.
Second, be as honest as possible in your relationship. Tell the person up front exactly what your likes and dislikes are and what you are looking for in a relationship, what your relationship goals are. You don't want to waste each other's time if you aren't compatible. Keep in mind however that honesty without compassion is cruelty.
Lastly, if you are serious about finding a successful relationship, try a matchmaking service. Matchmaking services are popular for a reason, they work. There is absolutely no doubt a matchmaking service can help you meet someone with similar interests. Very rare are the stories of people utilizing a service and still failing to find someone who is compatible. It takes a ton of the guesswork and intimidation off the plate. Before your first date you know the person's background, interests, education, and basic history. You will have a ton of things to talk about, especially those interests you share.
