subject: If You Want To Pull Him Back - The Words That Will Make Him Your Guy Again Fast [print this page] If You Want To Pull Him Back - The Words That Will Make Him Your Guy Again Fast
One of the biggest problems after a breakup is knowing what to say that will pull him back. You might think telling him you miss him and cannot live with out him would get your ex boyfriend back. But, crying and begging will only push him farther away. Actually you should not be saying anything to him right after the breakup. But when it is time, these are the words that will make him your guy again fast.
Of course after the breakup, you won't want to wait and that might end your relationship for good. You will be too emotional and your ex boyfriend is still angry. How can anything good come out of that combination? You have to let things settle down for a few weeks. It is natural for you to feel that you might have said or did something to cause the breakup. But, it is really both of your fault and you should not be beating on yourself.
If you think you might have caused the split, you will want to tell your ex boyfriend you are sorry and when a few weeks have passed you should. Whether you were the cause of the breakup or not, it never hurts to apologize. Saying you are sorry almost always gets a positive response, anywhere and any time. But it is the words you say after you tell him you are sorry, that will be the ones to make him your guy again.
When you tell him you are sorry, your ex will expect you to start crying and begging. But, he will not believe he is hearing what you are going to say next. You are going to tell him that you can see he was right. The breakup is best for both of you. Then finish by telling him you did not realize how unhappy you were with the relationship. Wish him well in the future and end the conversation.
Your ex boyfriend will be stunned. He never thought you felt that way and he will not be able to believe his ears. When he begins to have feeling again, he will feel rejected and dumped. But, he will also realize how much he loves you and what a fool he was to let you go. If you would have cried and begged he would have rejected you. But, by making him feel rejected you have taken the first step toward pulling him back. You have spoken the words that will make him your guy again.
