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You want to get your ex boyfriend back. I want you to do that. But only in a healthy way that will result in a happy relationship for you and your man. If you're having trouble turning that frown upside-down, then consider these tips to help get you in a position to think reasonably about forming a happiness-based "win-my-man-back" strategy.
Have you ever been to a rave? It's a huge set of rooms (usually in a warehouse), full of young people listening and dancing to electronic music. You can expect to be offered "Candy" (bracelets made of bright plastic beads) by a "raver" (one who regularly attends raves and dresses in the ceremonial "Candy Kid" fashion. Candy Kids wear neon glow-in-the-dark accessories and a variety of clothing arrangements including: super baggy pants, glow-in-the dark makeup or face paint, gloves that have lights on them, or anything that effects an infantile regression: pacifiers, blankets, bright-colored clothing, Rainbow Brite, Sesame Street Characters, Care Bears. Did we mention bracelets made of bright plastic beads? Some ravers also use drugs to make them feel "happy." Don't do that. I'll explain why in a moment.
"How does being happy help me get my ex back?"
Well... do you want a happy relationship?
Two Basics:
1. If you are happy, you will attract happy people into your life.
2. If you get out of the house and do fun things, you will be happier.
You don't have to go to a rave. But find something to do, yes? Contra dancing? A book club? (I chose raves because my gf always drags (er... takes?) me to them, and I usually have a great time.)
But if you DO go to a rave, don't drink too much do drugs there. Model the behavior of the friendly people and internalize small chunks of "friendly behavior," and you will have a smashing, wonderful, AND educational time. Being intoxicated, you might drop your "shell" but also use more of your body's natural energy than you can afford for happiness. Not that there's anything wrong with that... it depends what your goals are. If you want skills you can consistently use, then go out and interact, but don't get obliterated.
If you want to become the most seductive woman, go out and learn to have an amazing time, even sober. Or you may want to have a couple pops. Either way, do what YOU want to do and have fun.
Once you have now gotten yourself pumped up and happy, the adventure begins.
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