subject: Relationship Advice for suspected cheating partners [print this page] Relationship Advice for suspected cheating partners
Any woman would want to have a happy ending love story like most of the fairytales. But the problem is, not everyone can establish a long lasting and true relationship. You may have found your partner, but he might not be as perfect as prince charming because we are all living in reality where love problems exist. So, how can you possibly make your own Cinderella like love story?
In every relationship, there is nothing more terrifying for a woman than finding out that their man is having an affair. Undoubtedly, this is the most common source of the most hideous breakups. Believe it or not, your partner at some point would never have wanted to cheat on you. It s true that most of the time, man will start to have an external affair from one night stands with some random stranger.
Having an external affair is already classified as adultery and this is not a light event. These have ruin years of marriage, crushed most family's dreams and emotions. But how will you know if your partner has been stealing moments and sharing bed other than you?
There are lots of indicators that you or your partner is having an affair, and these indicators will actually prove that he/she is being unfaithful to you and your vows.
As the clich goes, "keep your friends close and your enemies closer", keep a strategic attack. Make friends with suspect while your partner is clueless. Never allow your partner to know your plans. Do this if and only if you are suspecting that your partner is having something that is outside your relationship.
If you think your partner is keeping secrets from you regarding a friend of opposite sex, you have to be very cautious about this. Do not ignore this kind of feeling but you also need to handle it in a very decent manner. Try not to sound like an investigator who is trying to squeeze information and details about who are the people he/she spent the whole day with, and the likes.
You will start to feel that he/she is losing the love and affection. And that you may notice that your partner is keeping a distance between yourselves.
The only solution here is to keep away from "bad vices" that you are attracted to or may have trigger an unpleasant affair. Have a clear boundary and do not let yourself get to close to these people. Avoid being alone or emotionally attached to someone you are attracted to. Talk to your partner and the communication from going. Try bringing out the old spark by little surprises or saying "I love you."
Try to reach out and understand your partner's behavior. This has been the most common problem in a relationship. And yes, a lot of people are guilty of just thinking about what they think is good and right. It would be better to decide and settle all things based on the result of your discussion.
The most successful marriages do not just rely on one person. Work as a team and show respect. That would still be the best relationship advice that works for most couples. You do not have to look like a princess or a queen wearing the eyes of love; just show him/her how you value your relationship and trust.
