subject: How To Talk To Women - 3 Things That Will Kill Any Attraction She Might Feel [print this page] For some guys, being able to talk to a woman can be a tough thing to do. Feeling uncomfortable and kind of awkward when talking to a woman is actually a lot more common than you may think it is, and it is also something that you can get over and handle pretty quickly. The problem that most guys have when it comes to having a conversation with a woman is, they just don't have a lot of experience. You probably spend more time having conversations with your buddies than you do with single women, so it's understandable that it might be a little uneasy for you.
Luckily, there are some ways that you can get over and around this. And it's one of those things that you have to be able to get over if you want to experience success meeting, dating, and attracting women. Sometimes, you have to break out of your comfort zones to get these kinds of things handled, so that is something that you need to be prepared to do. As long as you avoid the common mistakes that guys make when talking to a woman, you should be good to go.
Here are 3 things that will kill any chances that you have with a woman when talking to her, so avoid them at all costs:
1. Nervous body language and tone of voice.
If a woman senses that you are nervous, nine times out of 10, it's going to make her feel nervous as well. Plus, when your body language and tone of voice come off as being "nervous," you lose any alpha male appeal that you may have had with her. You need to be able to control your body language and your tone of voice when you are talking to a woman if you want the sparks to fly.
2. Bringing up old romances and escapades.
Once in a while it may not be a bad thing to bring up an old romance or girlfriend, especially if there is a funny story attached to her, but if you do this too soon and too often, it's a bad thing. You don't want to bring out the skeletons from your closet, and you don't want to risk bringing up some of hers, either. Stay away from this kind of conversation as much as possible.
3. Talking about politics, religion, or any other "taboo" subjects.
It's not that you can never talk about these things. After all, if you do end up in a relationship with a woman, these topics will probably come up, but in the beginning, avoid them at all costs. You don't want to start any arguments, you want to build a bond, create attraction, and make her want to see you and talk to you again.
