subject: Do Men In Healthy Marriages Cheat – What's the One Thing You Can Do To Make Him Stop? [print this page] Do Men In Healthy Marriages Cheat What's the One Thing You Can Do To Make Him Stop?
A marriage doesn't have to be a bad marriage in order for a husband to cheat on his wife. In fact, some men cheat for no other reason than the opportunity presented itself and they never believed they would get caught. Cheating, in the way of a one night stand is one thing. It's often a "crime" of opportunity rather than one of reason.
A long-term affair on the other hand is something else entirely. These are the affairs that can destroy marriages if allowed to continue unchecked. These are also rarely the result of a marriage that is completely happy, healthy, and fulfilling.
So, do men in healthy marriages cheat? Yes, they sometimes do. But men in healthy marriages usually do not carry on long-term affairs with the woman they are cheating on you with.
Healthy marriages may result in one or even a string of empty one-night stands. Those have little impact on how your husband feels about you and/or the health of your marriage. They say more about his own sense of willpower (or lack thereof as the case may be) than they do about the state of your marriage.
The question in both situations is what can you do to make him stop cheating? Is there one solution that works well for both? Yes there is.
Now, you'll have to put your own spin on this solution to make it work for your personality and your marriage but it is an effective tool for getting your man's attention and making him recognize that what he is doing is destroying your marriage. You must make him choose.
Give him a taste of how great life can be with you. Remind him of the good times you've had together. Let him know just how much you ADMIRE and RESPECT him! Ladies, trust me, it works! Those old feelings will come bubbling up to the surface and he'll remember all the reasons he fell hard for you in the first place.
Then, and only then, you lower the hammer. You let him know that you love him and want your marriage to work but you require his full and undivided attention and aren't willing to share his love, time, or affection with another woman. When you put it in these terms and tell him you're not willing to share, you are putting things in words he can understand. He wouldn't be willing to share you very well either especially now that you've reminded him of just how good things can be between the two of you.
