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Considered taboo to most, many people who bring up sex toys may laugh and say they don't need to use a sex toy. People may laugh our chuckle at even the thought of bringing it up to their spouse, hence using a toy on top of their own tools. Depending on your situation, spouse, or partner you might be afraid to use or even buy a sex toy out of sheer embarrassment, shame, or the fear of letting your spouse think you're desperate. It is time to bring out the many rumors and set the facts straight about these taboo toys, sex toys, pleasure toys, love toys, what ever you want to call them. It's also time to understand how you or you're spouse can benefit from using sex toys.
Fact or Fiction You're partner will not want to have sex with you anymore, after discovering his or her sex toy. Although sex toys are fun, and bring many added benefits into the bedroom, it can never replace another human being. A sex toy will not provide the passion, the love, or the spice into the bedroom. You cannot compare the intimacy with a sex toy and a person, for crying out loud, a sex toy does not hold emotions and will not hurt your relationship.
Fact or Fiction Bringing a sex toy in the bedroom is used by desperate individuals, let alone perverts and maniacs.
People who introduce sex toys in the bedroom come from various types of backgrounds, work in different enviornments, and very well could be your best friend or next door neighbor. People who use sex toys are individuals like you and me, sex toys allow an individual to build a more comfortable relationship between themselves and become more familiar with his or her body. Did I forget to mention, bring couples closer?
Fact or Fiction Using sex toys frequently can cause physical body damage.
Working in this industry for over 10 years, there is no evidence that suggests sex toys can cause any damage to your body. However if the individual decides to use the sex toy improperly, a quite odd example, however I figure I would mention this, using your vibrator to slap someone, indeed could cause physical damage. Much like throwing shoes or smacking someone in the head with a frying pan, get my drift?
Fact or Fiction After using sex toys, I'm afraid sex wont feel as good.ever.Bringing a sex toy into the bedroom of a marriage, relationship, what ever the case may be will not take away from your sexual and emotional experience. Using sex toys can actually increase stimulation to both partners and is a superb addition to foreplay methods. You will not begin to feel numb after time by using sex toys. Remember that. For example, introduce a clitoral vibrator during your foreplay sessions to achieve a new standard in sexual arousal or while doing the "act" to enhance the experience.
Fact or Fiction If you want to use sex toys, you can't use cheap ones, they have to be expensive
Not true. You do not necessarily have to spend an arm and a leg on a good product. There are many affordable, yet plentiful sex toys under $20 that are as effective and powerful. It is recommended for beginners, to start small and not overwhelm themselves with a bunch of sex toys.
Fact or Fiction If I start using sex toys, I'm afraid I will become addicted.
Sex toys are not drugs, plain and simple. They're often a very pleasureful experience, however you will not become addicted or have the need to use it to become sexually stimulated. Individuals who regularly use sex toys for masturbation or with their spouse do not rely on them.
