subject: Put His Attention on You [print this page] Put His Attention on You Put His Attention on You
How do you get a man's attention when his mind is everywhere else? Which actions work to make him concentrate on your relationship? Are you ready to be assertive and work for what you want? You have the power to redirect his focus where it needs to be.
There are billions of women in the world and you need to put his attention on you if you have any chance of being the one he chooses as his next, maybe last, girlfriend. Nothing works like attraction to put his eyes right where you want them to get his brain thinking about you instead of other women. Look nice with makeup, hairstyle or color, a new outfit, or whiten your teeth to give that confidence to feel beautiful inside and out to put his attention on you.
A man's brain easily wonders to food, sex, going to the bathroom, sex, more food, NASCAR, but he never seems to stay focused long enough on a woman. That's why you need to get his interest with an assertive approach. Your personality might be great but if he's not looking he won't even notice. Don't put all your attention on him to put his attention on you, instead take some attention off of him.
Have a life of your own with friends, family, hobbies, a job you love, and confidence to know you are an amazing woman destined to make someone happy who deserves you. Your busy, happy life might cause you to miss his calls or be unavailable a night he wants to go out but that is good because he wants a woman with a lot going for her who his cheery and he also needs to miss you. When you don't pick up each time or can't always go out when he asks, you instill what it's like to be without you.
You cannot be completely unavailable and you need to go on a couple dates per week for real time of connection and conversation. There is where you learn a lot about someone's past, their personality and what you have in common. Great conversation makes for a great date and the better the dates, the more he will miss you when you aren't around, and the more he'll want to spend time together. All you have to do is put his attention on you and run with it.
