subject: Being Too Nice is Bad in Dating [print this page] Being Too Nice is Bad in Dating Being Too Nice is Bad in Dating
Being too nice is just so BORING. I've got a friend who's more good looking than me, yet I get 10x more women than him. It's just simply because of our game. He's got no game. He got the looks, but he's too nice and boring and that's not attractive to women.
You see, women are attracted to looks, but a great personality is way more attractive.
They want a man who can make them happy, but not only that; they also want a man who can make them mad, excited, sad, nervous, and all sorts of different emotions.
The problem with guys is that they were used to thinking that the key to a woman's heart is to give her everything, be sweet and romantic, and not to make her mad for any reason.
But you know what, it's not our fault. We were raised like that. We were told by our moms to be good with women.
There's this part of our nature (which is our superego) that tells us to have ethical values to be socially accepted.
In other words, our minds were set to be good in order to be liked by other people.
But that's not the real key in attracting women.
Whenever you have thoughts like "I must be kind and thoughtful if I want this girl to be mine" or "I have to be a gentleman because I want her to be attracted to me", blame your superego.
Why?
Because these kind of thoughts will only lead you to the "let's just be friends" zone.
Your superego is making you too nice that's why you're not creating enough attraction. That's the reason why you end up as friends with her.
Sounds familiar?
Always remember that the key to attracting women is by triggering their emotions. Not only one, but different kinds of emotions.
