subject: How To Be A Charmer [print this page] How To Be A Charmer How To Be A Charmer
Do you know what charm is?
Don't worry if you're clueless. Few do.
Most men think bragging ad nauseum about their accomplishments, about all the interesting places they've been, and about girls they've conquered is charming.
It's not.
A lot of females complain talk endlessly about all the things go wrong in their life to their friends and male suitors. Instead of attracting people, it repels them. If they feel a need to complain, they should save it for their psychiatrist.
What are charmers and what do they do?
Most of them are master manipulators. Some are even sociopaths.
But most of us are so stuck inside our own heads that we cannot tell when they are manipulating us.
There's another thing that prevents us from recognizing when the charmer is manipulating us.
There's a misconception in our culture that manipulators and sociopaths lack the ability to empathize.
But most manipulators and sociopaths are masters empathizing.
To empathize means to understand where the other person is coming from. It means to know what it's like to walk in the other person's shoes.
While a lot of charmers lack sympathy, they are great at having empathy. In fact, this is where their power lies.
While most people are only concerned with themselves, the charmer makes the other person feel that he understands them.
He does not care about being the center of attention. Instead he let's others be the star and have the spot light.
This feeds off of people's weakspot - their ego.
As soon as they drop their defenses and become dependent on him, he goes in for the kill and manipulates them.
I am not suggesting that you become a sociopath.
However, there are many lesson to gleen from studying the charmer. If you put your oversize ego aside and allow women to shine, they'll become your loyal slaves. They'll depend on you for validation
In no time, they'll be buying you dinner and driving you around.
Here's your homework:
Think about the kinda of people you like.
These are people who like you and make you feel like a superstar.
That's how you want to make women feel.
Why? Because when we like people we are willing to go out of our way for them.
If you'd like to get more seduction tips and tricks on how to get girls to like you.
