subject: Keep Some Secrets Make Your Psychology Healthier [print this page] The psychologists point out that most of the normal adults has the potential to lead a double life. Imitation of others, trying to play the entirely different role with oneself is the embodiment of dual personality. In fact, this desire for the change of role would continue to adulthood. At the bottom of everyone's heart, there exists a secret world, in which, you can let your imagination soar and shape the role that you want to be.
Nowadays, the tech of internet makes it possible for people to build their own secret world in internet space, many netters have more than one user name on internet. They can play any role they like in network world, and enjoy their imagination and acting skills. The one on internet is actually another one in your heart. When people have problems in real life, they would talk their distress, vent emotions through another identity in the online world. Thus their mental stress and tension will be relieved unconsciously. Because, in the online world, you do not have the need to bear the consequence that your words and deeds would cause, so the one on the network is actually another aspect of you.
The psychologists have also pointed out that people with no secrets would easily fall into some mental diseases. The research has shown that psychological role-playing is very necessary for people's mental health. People who have no secrets will easily lost him, become suspicious and get depressed when they have problems on social interaction, work or marriage. On the contrary, people who have a secret world can find an exit to vent in his visional world.
There are indeed some people with several different identities in the multitude life. They contact with the unlinked people, have the different performance on the different occasion. This kind of people mostly lead an affluent life, but tough and dogma family. They grow up according their parents' own will. And when they get married, they want to be a good wife, husband, good parents, and lead a well-behaved life in other's eyes. When night falls or they travel alone, the other side in their heart will show up, and they would become a completely different people. This shows that the multifaceted nature of people, if make it reasonable, it is not a bad idea, for people are under the tremendous pressure.
When you can't well adapt to the multiple roles of life, you should be promptly find a psychiatrist to talk. It is not error that people have more than one faces, the key is to balance them.
