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Know how to keep a woman happy and keep her in your life? Here is some advice on relationships specifically for men.
The first advice on relationships I have is to always be yourself. Many men don't feel that they are smart enough or good enough to land or keep a beautiful, sexy woman, so they feel the need to be someone they are not. But a confident man is the sexiest one around. Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys sometimes have the prettiest women? That is because they show a good bit of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks do.
Next, you should always do the 'little things'. This means offering to open their door for them, letting them know from time to time that you love them and care for them, via little notes, flowers, etc. Sometimes men think you have to use "grand gestures," when it is the little things that add up to long relationships.
This goes into the next piece of advice on relationships: appreciate her. You should not ever take her for granted. Let her know that you value her and that you appreciate all she does.
Next up is to not obviously look at other women when you are with her. Most women think you are comparing her to the women you're looking at. They don't understand the whole concept of "this is what I do as a man." This comes from their biological drive for monogamy in their relationship. Women are looking for a lifetime partnership with a man that they can raise their children with. They can't stop this, it's natural for them. That's how God designed them. So minimize the women watching, especially when she is around.
You should try to make her laugh. While most men list looks at the top of the things they want in a woman, many women list a man's sense of humor as a top item. So, if you want the relationship to last, try to keep her laughing and amused.
The next bit of advice on relationships is to have common interests. It's great if you got together because of a hobby or an common interest, but it still helps that you take interest in other passions of hers. If this means developing an appreciation for chic flicks, so be it, or going to the opera or formal events. This shows that you care about her and she'll know you are the one for her.
Then once you get the girl, it may seem like you don't have to try anymore at least as far as grooming and interests goes. And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an effort to keep themselves looking decent and still enjoys their interests. So, shave even when you are home on weekends. Try to keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men. In short, don't let everything go just because you've landed her. You can turn her into a woman that gets tired of you.
She will need to know that you will fit into her circle of family and friends. A man must be part of her whole life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are simmering down. So, work at getting along with her friends or co-workers and impress her parents, siblings, etc. A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices, so make the effort, if you want it to last.
You should ALWAYS be considerate of her feelings, this is a big one! Women are less stable in what others think of them than guys. A big part of this is hormonal. When you are sensitive to her mood, you'll stay away from her bad side.
A final piece of advice on relationships is to be open minded when it comes to new things. In the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you are on to the way you kiss, etc. But, after a while, these things will become routine. If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, try something new. It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy and fresh.
So there's some advice on relationships to keep your dating life strong. Look guys, these things are common sense and the fact is that I almost drove my wife out of my life because I didn't pay attention to what I was doing and let things get 'stale'. There is several e-books that help to wake me up, look at my site for links to them. After reading them, you to will start to initiate some of these simple things into your relationship and it WILL turn around, trust me, I've been there.
