subject: How to Save Your Marriage [print this page] How to Save Your Marriage How to Save Your Marriage
My sister divorced last year after 7 years marriage life. At the day when her husband lodged divorce, she was shocked and didn't understand what the problem was at all. In her mind, every day was the same and they lived a sample and peaceful life, and so did to the other couples. But she was absolutely wrong. In fact, marriage life is like a art, we should manage it carefully and tactfully.
1. Make some surprise to your dull life
Due to the marriage life is fresh to the young couples, they always can create some ideas to decorate their life. The problem is often took place among those couples has lived together for several years. They are not attracted by each other as before and don't like to do anything to enlighten each other. Day by day, their marriage life becomes like quiet water in the lake till to divorce finally. To avoid this, you need to do something special to break the quiet lake. For example, you can plan a short travel together to the place you have never been to before. Or you can prepare some novel presents to give some big surprise to your partner.
2. Keep proper communication with each.
Communication can bridge your heart to your partner. And it is vital in all kinds of relationship. Through effective communication, you can share each others thoughts, happiness and likeness and know each other deeply. For example, you may your partner's trouble in his/her work after your communication, and then you can provide some good suggestions for solutions. He/she will think you are really caring about him or her. Meanwhile, the tone is very important during the communication.
3. Make some changes on your image
Due to you face to each other every day, you may present the same image to your all the time. You may find he/she even doesn't want to look at you when talking with you. So if you can do some changes on your image, like a different fire style or clothes, the situation will be changed. In this case, you need to know something about fashion. A little will make sense.
In short, different people may have different obstacles in their marriage life. We should face them directly and adopt effect effective solutions immediately.
