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A recent heart-breaking end to a long relationship is mighty difficult for most to overcome. The sudden change, that comes in one's life with a break-up is something that most take time to adapt with. Although, an end to any relationship is hurtful, the degree to which a death of a long-term romantic relationship hurts is very truly inexpressible. To overcome such a feeling, where a person tends to drift towards loneliness, boredom and serious depression, is not as easy, as it is to get in to one.
When you are with someone, you tend to practically share everything and anything about your lives. It is like taking a proper course on your partner. You learn and share each other's likes and dislikes, friends, favorite movies, books and many other stuff. So, the most important thing to get over any relationship, unless you are too carefree and chilled out to bother, is to get rid of everything that reminds you of the good old times. And although, you might think it is not yet time for you to let go of his/her stuff, the sooner the better.
Also, to gel back with your friends, who were not so important before the break-up is a good option to choose. Most times, all friends tend to support each other during such sorry times. But, just when you begin to believe that 'People are mean, but not too mean', you get the news of your ex dating an old friend. You are back to square one, in your 'pyjamas', on your bed, and with conspired emotions.
The secret to get out of any such relationship is simple yet complicated. But while, most romantic fools go out searching a new partner in the quest to overcome their recent love-life setback, the only thing they need to do, is to love their own life without their 'ex' in it. This, according to the experts, is the ultimate solution to a broken heart. Planning and working on all the plans that you ever ditched because of a date, should be your first step on this new way.
An end to a relation never ends your life, though some try to, but only because those soulless fools somehow forget about their other loved ones. However, the point is relationships are good, staying honest and committed, loving and sharing each other is also obviously a good thing but to realize that there existed a 'You' before your relationship, is very very crucial.
