subject: How To Forget Your Ex - You Can Never Fail As Long As You Use These 3 Tips [print this page] Are you going through a break up? Are you in depression, pain and anguish? There are so many people who go through this at least once in their life. I think we all need to learn to understand and handle these problems by making the use of the same experiences of other people. What you should do is having a positive attitude. You just need to forget your ex and move on with the life and its new opportunities.
There are various different views of people around the subject. Some say that this is how love is. If you have fallen in love then you have to go through this as it comes. Some say it is because of your weak will power. But these kinds of situations do not help you get and feel better. If you really want to forget your ex then you should follow the following three steps listed below:
1. Do Not Start Hating Your Ex
When people go through break up, they tend to suppress their feelings by thinking bad about the ex so that they can start hating their ex. You should not think that hating your ex can make you forget your ex. All this is going to confuse you more rather then easing out the situation. You really can not start hating someone whom you once loved deeply. Thus this is going to create a lot of mixed feelings and will make things more complex for you. In fact you will end up thinking about your ex all the time with the mixed feelings of love and hate.
2. Start Thinking About Yourself
For getting over these kinds of situations you need to look into your emotions and try to calm them out. You should think that it does not really matter that whose fault was it. You should never try to find out the actual reasons of break up. All these things can give you a feeling of having pity on yourself and would make you weak as a person. You would see a lot difference in your situation when you would start thinking only about your well being. Try to think rationally about your own feelings. You should just try to be yourself. You can even try discovering a new self in you. This would really give you a liberating feeling.
3. Try to be Rational
People may try out many things just to forget the pain that they are going through. You may start drinking heavily or even splurge on some shopping spree. Some people can even go to the extent of stalking their ex or trying to make their ex jealous by any means just to get back at them. If you are doing all this then you are NOT behaving rationally. If you have been doing these things then you should stop them immediately. These are not going to help you forget your ex.
You can try to forget your ex by trying these three simple tips to regain your healthy state of mind and find better way to live your life.
