subject: Don't Expect Jenny to Be Like Susie in Bed [print this page] Don't Expect Jenny to Be Like Susie in Bed
If you are heading into a new relationship and have visions of your new girlfriend acting the same in bed as your old girlfriend did then you are setting your new girlfriend up for failure and yourself up for a surprise.
You've probably gotten used to the way you turned your ex on and got her in the mood for sex and think that it will work the same for your new girlfriend. WRONG! It couldn't be farther from the truth.
Every woman is different in their sexual habits, likes, and dislikes. Just because Susie liked to be rough in bed doesn't mean Jenny will and if you expect Jenny to perform like your ex did you may be setting her up for failure, in your eyes.
There is no comparison chart for women in bed. They do not have to live up to the porno actress that you watch over and over and they do not have to move like a stripper in the club.
The less expectations you have when getting into a new sexual relationship the better. This way the new experience will be like something you have never had before and you'll appreciate the differences and new things you are learning.
Some women like to be submissive in bed while others prefer to be dominant. If you try to dominate a woman who doesn't like that then you are going to turn her off and, more importantly, piss her off, which will ruin the mood for the night.
Some women like the lights on and some like them off.
Some will dress up in role playing costumes and some won't even think about.
Some will use sex furniture and some think that's disgusting.
My point is that you can't compare sexual experiences between girls and you can't use the same moves you used before for the new girl you have now.
So before you even get her into bed figure out what she likes and doesn't like by asking her. There is no better way to learn what she likes then to hear it from her mouth.
