subject: Why Should You Find Out If Your Woman Likes to Be Dominant Or Submissive in Bed [print this page] Why Should You Find Out If Your Woman Likes to Be Dominant Or Submissive in Bed
Every woman is most likely a little more submissive or dominant in bed. I should tell you that unless you actually find out for sure you may never know which one it is if she's just trying to please you.
Once you find out which side of the line she falls on you can use that to your advantage and start pleasing her by playing into her fantasies. She will be more relaxed and at ease knowing you accept her for whatever she wants or needs to do in bed to get the most out of it.
Most dominant woman will like to have control in bed. You may be more reluctant to give up all control if you have no clue that it would really turn her on. She may not want to look like an insane person who wants to hold you down and have sex her way and even though she probably wouldn't look insane in your eyes she may picture you seeing her coming on to strong in her own head.
On the other hand if she is submissive in bed you may not be as aggressive as she would actually like, but it may be hard for her to tell you that. Sometimes a woman who likes to give away the power in bed will not want to look like she's just lying there so she will force herself to do more than she actually wants to do. I know of many women who orgasm harder and faster when they are being still and dominated without having to move or make any noises.
Either way, if you don't know for sure, you are missing out on some naughty role playing that could send her, and you, over the edge.
If she hasn't told you which one she prefers yet then chances are she is shy about it so you need to outright ask her. If she's still shy about it when you ask her then let her know that once you know you will be able to please her even more and that either way you will love it. That should get her to open up about which one she prefers.
