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It can really stink to realize, after the breakup, that you still love your ex and you wish you had never ended the relationship.I know this is a difficult time for you and also for your ex.It takes courage for you to admit that you made a mistake of deciding or agreeing for the break up and you hope if your ex can give you forgiveness and if there's a chance to be together again.The good news is that despite the painful break up, reconciliation can happen.
Here are the best tips on how to get back together; these are sure shots of advices that have worked for thousands of people, and with some hope, it can work for you too if you just follow them.It is necessary that before learning those steps, your motivation of doing so are for the good and for the best.When your lonely or sad, do not make it as the top reasons of wanting to get back with your ex.
Give yourself time to think a lot of things and do not just rush into a decision of winning your ex back just because the night is so cold without him/her or your ex has a new partner in his/her life.Okay, now given with enough time you are able to assess well your feelings and you are so certain that it's not really jealousy or loneliness as the reason for desiring your ex to be with you again, but it's the feeling that it's always the two of you that can have best relationship ever and if you still love your ex, follow the steps below:
1. Allow and respect their space.This time, you should avoid texting/calling your ex.It's important that you both have breathing room so that you can each miss the otherIf you are constantly contacting your ex, you aren't giving them reason to fear that they may have really lost you.It's that fear that will make them more receptive to giving things another try.
2. Take a look at yourself and examine the good and bad sides of you and when change is possible, be willing to do it.This can be a difficult thing for you as accepting your own flaws is hard to do as well, however if you desire to enter or re-enter into the best relationship in the future with your ex or with someone new, it is crucial to change what is ought to be changed.There is no point going from one relationship to another (or back to a previous relationship) dragging the same bad habits with you.If change did not happen because you chose not to, then expect that the relationship will still have the same cycle of tension.
3. While you do some changes for self-improvement, you can also spend time with the people close to your heart aside from your ex and do the things you enjoy the most.It's time to enjoy life, the life of being single without commitments at all and the life being surrounded with good and great family and friends; there's no point of crying hard this time.This will remind your ex of the person they fell in love with in the start.
These tips on how to get back together really worked for the majority and if you just have the willingness and motivation to do them, sure they will work for you too.