subject: How to Win Your Ex Back - 3 Critical Things You Can't Afford to Miss! [print this page] How to Win Your Ex Back - 3 Critical Things You Can't Afford to Miss!
What is it going to take to win your ex back? After all, you have tried just about everything you can think of and nothing seems to be working. It seems that with every move you make, things just deteriorate a little more.
Well, the truth is that not everyone is able to make the right moves after getting dumped. Okay, actually, most of us are unable to make the right moves after getting dumped.
But does that mean there is no hope? Not at all - in fact, if you are wondering how to win your ex back, there are steps you can take now to restore your relationship in less time than you ever imagined and it probably doesn't have anything to do with the tactics you are using now. These are time-tested, proven methods that have worked for many over the years.
The first thing you are going to want to do is some damage control. Have you lost your temper with your ex partner? Are you guilty of sending them desperate messages every 5 minutes? Have things been said that you regret? Think you have really blown it and nothing you can say or do is going to fix the situation? Well, the truth is that there are very few instances in which you have no chance to redeem yourself. No matter how bad things are at the moment, simply stopping what you are doing is going to go a long way. This is one example where doing less is actually accomplishing more.
Next, you will want to do everything in your power to increase your desirability. Nothing is going to happen if your ex does not feel some sort of attraction toward you. Amazingly, it is not all about the physical aspect either. Here are 5 Steps to increasing your attraction when it comes to your ex. If you can do this, you will be well on your way to becoming the object of their desire.
One thing that is going to keep you from making any headway is if you don't accept what has happened and you can't move on. Yes, I know that you don't actually want to move on, but you have to accept this as a possible outcome. As long as you have not accepted what has happened, you are always going to be holding out hope that there is a chance they are going to change their mind and you will be right back in the relationship in no time. Facing reality, while sobering, will ground you and take away a lot of that anxiety you are feeling at the moment.
What is the one thing you can do right now that will have the biggest impact? Without a doubt, working on your image and creating attraction. If you do this right, you may see results almost instantly. Start here with these 5 Steps to Creating Attraction.
