subject: Win Your Ex Back By Letting Her Do The Work [print this page] Win Your Ex Back By Letting Her Do The Work
Some of the techniques you can make use of to get your ex girlfriend back can be devious or crafty techniques. These can work, but they do not help you get to the source of the problem that led to the break up. At times, trying a way to win your ex back that will help solidify your relationship is the best way to go.
If you could just let your ex girlfriend go without chasing after her and begging for her to come back, you would be doing her and you a favor. Right after breaking up and for at least the next couple weeks both of you are going to be dealing with some emotional stress. You most likely fought and argued before breaking up and that anger is still with you. Trying to talk about anything now with your ex will not go over very good.
Take this couple of weeks to let things settle down and both of you will start to let the bad memories fade and begin to think of the good times you had together. If your girlfriend broke up with you, she will start to miss you if you have kept away from her during this time. Being out of mind and out of site has let her settle down and rethink if what she did was the best move.
In addition to missing you she will be wondering what you are doing because you have not tried to contact her. Her curiosity will be getting the best of her and hopefully she will call you to see how you are doing. If she calls, this is good for you, but you must play a little hard to get. Let her think you have been doing great without her and keep the conversation short. Before hanging up make sure you ask about calling her back another time when you have more time to talk.