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"My girlfriend broke up with me the day before yesterday. When she told me that, my head just went blank. We have been in love for five years. During those 3 years, we were together everyday. And it was really wonderful time for me; we went through together for a lot, including happiness and sadness. I just can not accept the reality because I love her so much. I have been thinking that we will get married hands in hands. I have never thought of breaking up."
What's your feeling after finish reading this man's narration? Are you worried about when you might get dumped? Have you ever thought of breaking up when you are in love? Will you get regret if you split up with your beloved one? Here are 3 tips for you to avoid breakup if you really cherish your love.
1. Love needs speak out
However, it does not mean that you should go out and tell everyone that you found your true love. You need not publicize your love. If you love her or him, just speak out and tell him or her. Tell your significant other "I love you", when you see him or her going to work. And give him or her hug when he or she goes back home. Give each other a kiss when you go to sleep every night.
You are supposed to tell your beloved one's disadvantage and advantage. However, do not use sharp words that may hurt the other one. Your must hope your beloved one perform very well both in work and in life. Encourage him or her when he or she does very well and show your great interest in that. Tell him his shortage with polite words. For example, you can say "well honey, this suit is great on you, yet maybe that one will be greater, why not have a try?" We believe that your beloved one will take your advisement.
2. Love needs understanding and caring
It is not love without understanding and caring. If you want to get married with your significant another, you should try to understand him, including his or her living habit, wearing style. What's more, you should try to understand what he may be thinking, which is a little bit difficult and is a long task. When she or he makes mistake, you should be the first one to understand he or she. Then you should try your best to know what the reason is for her or him to make mistake and then should help him or her to correct it.
In addition to, you should care about her or him. It is better to think what he or she may think, and do it for him or her. For example, when you find it is too cold, remember to prepare thick clothes for each other; when she or he will be on a business trip, prepare the luggage for her or him. Those are daily chores, which could totally show your consideration.
3. Love needs romance
Life needs romance, so do love. Remember your beloved one's birthday and prepare a surprise for him or her. For example, you can buy her or him a birthday present that he has been long for. As for me, my loved one bought me a bar phone that I love for a long time. What's more, you could choose one day to have a great dinner or watch a romantic movie, which will definitely improve your relationship. You could even go on a vacation
I believe that if you think as much as for each other with enough communication, you relationship will be better and better.
