subject: What do Women Find Attractive in Men [print this page] What do Women Find Attractive in Men What do Women Find Attractive in Men
So, you do want to attract the ladies but you think you have a problem: You don't have that "killer-killer face," that Al Pacino had in his youth, or that lady-melting eyes that Tom Cruise has? Don't sweat it because women are not actually attracted by looks alone. Think of Adam Sandler; he simply looks like your everyday American dude but he has a charm that can get the ladies down on their knees! Well, enough of those celebrity examples; the title of this article already says about what this is all about so let's go straight to the point.
Unlike men, women are not actually attracted by physical looks; they are attracted by character, initially, by confidence. You may tire of the word "confidence," being said again and again but no matter how hard you try to deny its seductive power, women will still remain vulnerable to the charms of a confident man. Besides, it has always been the most prominent sign of strength throughout the entire evolution of the human species.
You must also be a man with a plan, a vision, and do whatever it takes to make them a reality because it attracts the ladies (although making that the only reason for doing so is not actually good). It is natural for men to aim for higher planes, so just find that goal within your self and that automatically burns the fire of passion which is another lady attractor.
Be reliable and be responsible because being such is the most powerful proof of strength. Women do not like slackers; actually, nobody does.
Now, with all those noble-sounding lady attractors, never ever forget the one thing that you must have at all costs: the sense of humor. As much as men like those women who laugh at their jokes, women also love those men who make them laugh. A man who is armed with confidence must bring with him an air of sense of humor so that the strength being radiated by his confidence provides women with a feeling of security, so be sure to wear an air of playful sense of humor around you along with your confidence, responsibility, and passion.
