subject: How to Talk to Women [print this page] How to Talk to Women How to Talk to Women
When you talk about ways on how to talk to women, a lot of men find themselves in a dilemma. Remember, it all starts with the talking. Some people say that how to talk to women is actually more like listening to women, but that does not necessarily mean that you have to let her do all the talking and then all of the listening goes to you. It doesn't also mean that all you can say are things like "uh-huh", "and then", "so", "oh", "I see", "ah", "okay", and stuff like that. How to talk to women is not actually far from talking to your buddies - you listen, you talk, you interrupt, you laugh, you crack your own joke, you ask questions, and you try to clarify things. In short, you do things that would simply do in a mundane condition.
But there's a problem - there is definitely a problem, because if there were none, then people like you wouldn't actually try to search the web to know how to talk to women and how to get yourself comfortable enough to continue talking to women.
There are two ways on how to talk to women. One is by following the "3 second rule", when you spot the girl that you've been eyeing, approach and talk to her before 3 seconds have elapsed after you've spotted her. This is because after 3 seconds, you will begin to over-analyze everything and that is when nervousness gets into your blood vessels and you find yourself ending up with nothing.
Another way to start a conversation is by taking notice of anything physically related to you find interesting, like her tattoo, the color of her nail polish, her hair pin, or her little black dress (taking notice of her clothes is more of a girl's thing, but it may also work).
Sometimes, you will be in a situation where you will not have anything in your head to start another conversation with the girl that you've been aiming. If that happens, let it go, do not say anything if you really have nothing to say because you might just end up looking like a testosterone-overloaded wussy. So just let it go, forget about it, there's another time for that and when that time comes, you will do just fine.
