subject: How to Get Ex Back-Tips and Advice [print this page] How to Get Ex Back-Tips and Advice How to Get Ex Back-Tips and Advice
Breaking up is a very painful experience and more often than not, people always want to get back together with their ex. If you are one of these people, it is important to know some tips on how to get ex back. This may be difficult especially if you are in bad terms with your ex or if your ex already has a new partner. You should not even try to go after your ex if you know that he is already committed in a new relationship. But if there is no new girlfriend and if you are still friendly with your ex, there is no reason for you to hold back what you are feeling.
Here are some useful tips and advice if you want to get your ex back.
* Do not act so pathetic by chasing after your ex or threatening him with suicide or physical attacks. You should also prevent yourself from begging or pestering your ex. These negative, not to mention pathetic, acts will only drive your ex farther away. You have to use positive strategies if you want to get your ex back.
* You should let your ex know subtly that your life is very fine even without him in it. You have to look and act the part by treating yourself nicely. This should not be just an act. You owe it to yourself to start feeling good about yourself again after the breakup. You should start paying attention to your appearance. It is also important not to pine for your ex while sitting inside your room waiting for the phone to ring and hoping that your ex will call. If you want your ex to know what he is missing, you have to show him that you are doing fine without him.
* You should have a plan and you have to stick to it. If you and your ex have common friends, you can also ask for their help to get you and your ex back together. You can ask them to organize a party and invite your ex. This is a good way to talk to your ex and start rekindling the fire that once burned between the two of you.
