subject: Crucial Steps To Make Your Ex Realize He Still Loves You - Do This And Get Him Back For Good [print this page] Crucial Steps To Make Your Ex Realize He Still Loves You - Do This And Get Him Back For Good
When your boyfriend broke up with you, the fact that you feel he no longer loves you can be devastating. You still love him and do not want to face the future without him. The truth is, you boyfriend is still in love with you. Something made him unhappy with the relationship and he needs time to think. If you give him that time, it will make him realize he still loves you.
The problem will be if you do not give him that time. If you chase him crying and telling him you cannot live without him, he will lose respect for you. Your ex boyfriend will see you as being needy and desperate and be glad he broke up with you. The key to getting him back is to make him miss you as much as you miss him. Do this and get him back for good.
He cannot miss you if you are always around reminding him of why he broke up with you. By calling, emailing and sending text messages continually telling him of your undying love, how can he miss you? If you want your ex back, you have to take yourself completely out of his life. That is what he has done to you and you are desperate to get him back. The fact that he broke up with you does not make it any different.
Another thing you need to know is that men and women fall in love in different ways. You, as woman will fall in love by having your man close. But, your ex boyfriend will fall in love from a distance. That is why you need to put as much distance between the two of you as possible. Make up your mind right now to have no contact with your ex for at least three weeks.
During this time apart, you should look at what attracted your ex to you at the beginning and what has changed. Think of the way you looked and acted then and how you look and act now. Then you have to work on the changes you see. To make him realize he still loves you, you will have to become the woman he fell in love with again. Once you do that you can get him back for good.
Of course you cannot just call him and tell him you are the woman he fell in love with again. You will have to let him see for himself. First you should let him just get a glimpse of you a couple of times. Maybe at the mall or other places you know he might be. Make it quick and don't let him know for sure it is you. Seeing someone who looks like the woman he fell in love with will start him to missing her.
Next get together with friends and go out where he hangs out and let him see the woman he fell in love with up close. Not close enough for conversation, but so he knows it is you. Then disappear as suddenly as you appeared. This will make him see that he still loves you and needs you back in his life.
