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How to Open Yourself towards your Life's Purpose
"Why am I here? What is my purpose in this life?" Asking these questions marks the start of your quest to finding your life's purpose. Following the path toward a lifetime of meaning and purpose differs for everyone. Here are some steps that have been taken by lots who live a fulfilling life.
Become more self-aware so you acknowledge how you truly feel. Are you currently fully satisfied, or it's about time for a significant change? Among the keys to living a lifetime of meaning and purpose is acknowledging the nagging feeling that there was more to your life than what you are doing now. Maybe you don't feel satisfied, and nothing on the present horizon looks like it is going to do the trick. Can you sense there's a greater reason behind being but have no idea Just what it is? Have you had enough? Do you dread going to work? Do you experience feeling unfulfilled? Do you feel bored and unhappy?
Think about these important questions: Begin your day with meditation or prayer, and ask yourself these questions: What exactly is my purpose with this life? Why am I really here? What's my heart's desire? Then listen. The answers may not come to you right away, but be patient, and look for clues. Don't try to generate the answers intellectually, or figure it; these are questions that you want to be answered within a more expanded way.
Listen to your inner voice. Tune in to your inner voice most importantly. Meditation is a key to unlock your intuition. By spending some time in silence every day through meditation or prayer you can expand your awareness and quiet the noise and distractions from the outside. Listening to and hearing your inner wisdom takes practice, and anyone can do it. Intuition is an extremely wise, yet quiet voice. It is very real, and does not't steer you wrong. When you act on your own intuition and respond authentically to the cues around you, you'll begin to believe in own wisdom and unlock the secrets of your happiness.
Notice what you are drawn to, pay attention to your internal yes and no, or your ahhhs and hmms, and act on them. Your body is very wise, just think, it exchanges oxygen molecules for carbon dioxide molecules, constantly replaces the cells in your body, controls your temperature as well as your heartbeat, and so much more amazing really so this really is a simple task for your system. Your body is wise; it is your best friend. You are able to tune into and truly become more conscious of your sensations of comfort and discomfort, listen to the quiet voice inside, and really focus on what you are attracted to. Becoming aware and honoring all those feelings in each moment is essential to a successful journey toward a far more fulfilling life.
Tune out your "should's" from those who are around you. Please take a leap of faith and rely upon your dreams. A poor habit is if we are dependent on others people's opinions of us, and defer thus to their concept of that which you should do rather than following our dreams. Finding your purpose sometimes means going against the advice of close friends and family.
A man named Gandhi once said,
"There are times when you've got to obey a call which is the highest of all, i.e. the voice of conscience, even though such obedience may cost many a bitter tear, and much more, separation from friends, from family, from the state to which you may belong, from all which you have held as dear as life itself. With this obedience is the law of our being."
Try to find clues and be open to possibilities: Clues to your life's purpose may be found in the solutions to these questions: How can you spend your free time? What were your hobbies were when you were a young child left expressing your personal creativity? Perhaps you'll find clues in books or Cd's that catch your attention. Spend time with people who are living their dreams and are talking about things you are attracted to or are thinking about. When you are onto something, synchronicity may become more frequent, that is a big clue. An opportunity to discover and express your passion might be revealed or serendipitous event that reminds you of what's important and what makes you completely happy.
Richard Bach, author of Jonathan Livingston Seagull writes: ( PS in the event you haven't read this book its a must)
"Nothing happens by chance, my friend... there's No such thing as luck. A meaning behind every little thing, and such a meaning behind this. Part for you, part for me, may not see it all real clear right now, but we will, before long."
Notice whom you admire, and put your attention on what type of person you want to be. You might admire your mom, or grandfather, or perhaps a mythological or biblical figure, or a world leader or boss. Take an inventory of who they are and what qualities they have got. Those who you admire are showing you the qualities that one could bring out in your own life. Determine how you already show those qualities and acknowledge that. That which you put your attention on grows. Check your list and aim to embody the qualities of people you admire.
Be patient. Trust the wisdom of the universe. You'll sense that you are onto something whenever you experience joy or peace in the moment, feel energized by your activity, or sense that you're being supported as part of your efforts by the universe, nature, God or your higher self. Realize that your life is on your side. Have faith and patience. Be open to signs and wonders, coincidences and opportunities. Keep your commitment and take small steps to make it happen or as some may say manifest it.
Practice gratitude. Putting your attention on what you have and asking for what you want will keep you from regretting the present moment. Grateful people do not deny or ignore the negative aspects of life. According to the experts, it's very easy to regret the time you've spent being unhappy or unfulfilled. Studies have found those who practice gratitude report higher levels of positive emotions, life satisfaction, vitality, optimism and lower levels of depression and stress. The disposition toward gratitude seems to enhance pleasant feeling states more than it diminishes unpleasant emotions.
