subject: Getting Your Ex Husband Back: Change Your Approach And Have Him Searching For You [print this page] Getting Your Ex Husband Back: Change Your Approach And Have Him Searching For You
Looking at ways to get your ex husband back can be overwhelming; it can be hard to know where to begin.
Have you already tried pleading with him and begging him to take you back. Unfortunately this approach usually does not work. In the past you might have got away with tears but now he has taken a harder attitude towards your relationship.
You need to try something he is not expecting. And although it is obvious it can be difficult to do when you are feeling desperate and want to talk to him. The answer is to do nothing, keep out of his life for a while. Human nature is such that if he does not see or hear from you he is going to wonder what you are doing. Having got that far step 1 is accomplished. Having him curious about what you are up to is very powerful.
Now is the time to work on yourself and think about how you can become a better person. If you are feeling depressed and lonely it is hard to attract your husband. You need to become the sort of person that he is attracted to. Read self help books to increase your self esteem. Take up new skills, Italian cooking, a foreign language any sort of education helps. If you are not happy about your personal appearance now is the time to work on it. Remember these self improvements are both for you and him.
When you feel ready to see him, let him track you down. Visit his friends and family on a casual basis knowing they will let him know how great you look and what you are doing. It always works better if he approaches you and thinks that getting together was his idea.
Having a plan will help you set goals and put you in the right direction.
