subject: Step 1 of your husband hunt [print this page] Step 1 of your husband hunt Step 1 of your husband hunt
Ladies,if you do nothing else, do this one thing! If I meet someone for 5 minutes who's complaining that they can't find a man, this is all that I tell them. It's amazing how reluctant women are to do this one thing. I'll ask them a month later if they spent 10 minutes doing this one thing that will change the rest of their lives. "Nahnot yet" WHAT?!?! Really. Let's stop sabotaging ourselves.
This is the one thing that changed my search for a man, and it's done the same for the women I know who have done it. If you believe in the Secret, the Law of Attraction, or the Power of Prayer, that's what this is. If you don't believe in any of it, just humor me and do it. See what happens, but suspend your disbelief, or you will stop yourself in your tracks. That's not what you want, or you wouldn't be reading this.
I don't care if you make your list on your computer, or you make your list in a journal or on an old notebook paper. I want you to write down EVERY thing you want in a man. This is your happily ever after. Don't think about what's possible. Don't think about what's likely. Don't think about your past. Think about your ultimate fantasy partner and your ultimate fantasy relationship with him. Visualize everything about him and start writing. BE HONEST. If you want a gazillionaire, then write it down. If you want a 12 inch penis, write it down. If you want someone Australian, write it down. Just trust me.
I recentlyran across the list that I wrote about 30 days before I met my husband. I was floored. Every single thing on it was him. Even after years of marraigeit was still him. At the time that I wrote that list, I remember feeling that I wasn't sure I even deserved a man like the one I had pictured, but he showed up anyway. Here's some examples of the things that were on my list:
Addiction free
Amazing father
Attracted to me
Sexually healthy
Kind
Loves Animals
Self Employed
Great sense of humor
Good relationship with his family
Great credit
Neat
Health concious
and it goes on to continue to describe everything that my husband today is.
This is a fun list to make. You have no excuse not to do it. Next, put it somewhere you will see it every day. You don't have to read it. You don't have to study it. You don't have to meditate on it (though that can't hurtvisuallizing is so very powerful), but you need to recognize it's existance and remember that you have it. I taped mine to the wall next to the toilet in my master bathroom.
A few things will happen.
1. You'll attract this person.
2. You'll iron out what you REALLY want.
3. You'll more easily identify it when it shows up
4. You'll quickly identify the men that are not for you.
That's your homework tonight. Feel free to share your favorite "list" item in the comments!
