subject: Do You Know How The No Contact Rule Works? - Learn How To Use It And Get Your Ex Back Fast! [print this page] Do You Know How The No Contact Rule Works? - Learn How To Use It And Get Your Ex Back Fast!
The amazing thing about the no contact rule is that it works every time. In fact, it is almost impossible to get your ex back without using it. Yet many women do not use it in their attempt to make their ex boyfriend love them again. Either they do not understand how powerful it can be or they are in such a state of panic that they forget about it.
When a breakup occurs, you are in an emotional mess and your ex is angry. Any attempt to communicate at this time will only lead to more hurt feelings for you and you ex will pull farther away. That is why the no contact rule is so effective. It gives you both a chance to get a grip on yourself and see things from a better point of view.
If your ex boyfriend said he needed space, use the no contact rule to give him the space he needs. Your ex boyfriend will thank and respect you for your consideration. When you show him that you can have a life without him, he will start to see what his life is like without you. If you go out with your friends and have a good time, he will remember the good times he had with you.
As time passes and he realizes that you are not going to try to get him back, his ego will be bruised. When he broke up with you, he was sure that you were still very much in love with him. Now, since you are ignoring him and not trying to communicate with him in any way, he is wondering if you even care. The no contact rule will be taking effect on him and he will feel the need to find out where things stand.
Your ex boyfriend will first check with your mutual friends to see if you have been telling them that you miss him. If he does not get any satisfaction from them, he will send you an email. He will just ask you how things are going and this will be to test the water and see how soon you answer his email. By answering it right away, you are letting him know that he is still in control.
So, do not answer his email and make him call you. If he wants to meet you to talk things over, go ahead and agree, but tell him you are busy right now and will have to call him back. This puts you in control and you will be in a much better position when you meet with him.
