subject: Of Approaching Women, Rejection, and Solution [print this page] Of Approaching Women, Rejection, and Solution
Was there a time in your life that you wanted to approach a woman but you were too afraid to do it? Of course, there is! Some say it's hesitation but we all know that it's fear. Fear of rejection. I know. I was once one too. I have my fair share about this topic before but after spending time with people who overcame this level, I fairly interact with hot women on a regular basis.
Meet Jonas. He is a self-made millionaire out of his talents in Google Adsense. One thing is sure about these kinds of guys. They are geeks. That was before. Jonas reinvented himself from an IT professional wearing loose pants and big sleeves inside his trailer he got from his dad to a full-tuxedoed hunk with blue contact lenses fresh from a Los Angeles airport ground transportation. You won't see this guy going to work on a bike anymore. He presents himself from a luxurious taxi cab Orange County CA to an expensive office. A once dorky computer robot, Jonas has been a habitu of LAX airport transportation and cab service in LAX.
He changed a lot because of one simple thing. He approached women. Moreover, he overcame the fear of women. How did he do it? It was not simple if we would trace it. He immersed himself to an underground group whose goal centered on meeting the hottest women in the club. Let us not discuss these people. We better talk about how did they make Jonas do it, and later, Jonas teaching me how to arrive with confidence in women in a luxurious transportation in John Wayne airport.
First off, let's think about rejection. How many times have we had that sad sinking feeling of rejection from women when we just merely said "Hi." As for me, thousands of time feeling low due to rejection. Now think about it. How many times did we ask a woman's opinion on something concerning her logic. The problem with us is we tend to be so masculine. We can fake it sometimes, but when worse comes to worst, it's obvious were pretending to be THE MAN. As an effect, the girls reject us.
Second, why don't we try to warm up. Let's talk to some people, men and women on which sexual connotations are not implied. You'll see the difference between the two. When you are just being friendly, everyone is accommodating. When you imply sexual attraction, a woman put up her walls.
With these as our starting steps, we can make things easy. As the tribal leader, Mystery, termed it, Approach Anxiety can be overcome with the right procedure.
