subject: How to Get Your Ex Lover Back in 2010 [print this page] Author: John Paul Jones Author: John Paul Jones
A friend of mine recently went through a terrible breakup right around Christmas and the New Year, and I felt absolutely terrible for him. Luckily, he managed to get his ex girlfriend back in time for 2010. How did he do it? He used some pretty unconventional techniques, but the basics of it are not rocket science. I wrote this article in hopes of preventing anyone from going through what my friend went through over the holidays. He is now happier than ever with his girlfriend and does not plan on her becoming his ex lover any time soon.
The first thing to do to work your way towards getting your ex lover back, is to accept the breakup. This is the first of many unconventional techniques. Many people instead engage in "text message terrorism", which only ruins their chances of ever getting an ex back. Accepting the breakup will throw them off and show them that you are not completely dependant on them. Many times someone will break up with their partner simply because they feel they have control over them; take control back and show your ex lover that you don't need them, they need you. Also, start to exercise if you don't already. This will take your mind off things, and give you another thing to keep busy with. The busier your schedule is the first few weeks the easier it is for you to get your ex lover back. In fact, if you do it right, you won't have to try at all and they will come crawling back to you. How great is that?
In the meantime, surround yourself with great friends and family. Keep a busy schedule, and ignore any texts and calls from your ex lover. This will set the stage so you can use dirty psychological tricks to get your ex lover back to make sure that you get what you set out after. Most people assume it's impossible to get an ex back, so don't even try. This is a big mistake, and your ex might want you back more than you think, even if they break up with you. Human psychology is an amazing thing. To learn how to seal the deal, check out how to get an ex lover back.About the Author:
