subject: What Can I Do So My Ex Will Come Back? [print this page] What Can I Do So My Ex Will Come Back? What Can I Do So My Ex Will Come Back?
A lot of painful emotions come with breaking up with a person you really love. You miss them a lot and feel depressed, sad and hurt. You constantly ask "What can I do so my ex will come back?"
There are many sources of information out there that are designed to help with that question in the form of blogs, books, websites or forums. One thing that can really make a difference is good old common sense. Common courtesy can help heal your relationship too. If you were wrong, don't hesitate to say "I'm sorry" and really mean it and be willing to change. Here is some simple advice if you are pre-occupied with getting your ex back. Don't play games! Unfortunately people start playing games after a breakup and this only hurts one another in the long run. It is sad when someone has to manipulate another to get what they want, making them have false feelings that may or may not be there. Manipulating someone might feel good when it works, but in the end won't feel good at all.
Sooner or later manipulations will backfire and do more damage to the relationship than perhaps the original breakup. Lies and trickery are terrible things to do and will magnify the damage in the relationship when the other finds out. Pretending to date someone else, or pretending to love someone else in order to create jealously in the ex is very dangerous. It might work sometimes, but is not worth the risk because if and when it backfires, it can make the breakup permanent.
Either your ex will become so jealous that they will go to extremes to get you back, or will think since you moved on so quickly then it is senseless to try and heal the relationship and will move on too. Don't be mean and cruel. This will only do more damage and decrease your chances of ever getting your ex back. Forgive each other and move on with a new beginning, not bringing up past mistakes but planning new and brighter futures together. If we live in the past, we are most likely to keep making past mistakes and get no where.
If you really want to get your ex to come back try putting yourself in their shoes. Would you look forward to spending time with you or having a meaningful conversation with you? Or are you the nagging yelling screaming type that no one wants to be around for long? Work on yourself and become a person that your ex will miss and want to get back with. Don't let your anger control you, but put it aside be kind and loving instead.
Be at your best and your ex will remember why they were attracted to you in the first place. They will start to miss you and want you back. This is what you want to happen so that you can get your ex to come back to you.
