subject: Dating Advice for Guys - 3 Ways to Make a Woman Desire You [print this page] Dating Advice for Guys - 3 Ways to Make a Woman Desire You
Most traditional dating advice for guys is based on the premise that you have to try really hard to "make" a woman like you. They teach you to do things like write romantic poetry, buy her gifts, and show her that you are hopelessly devoted to making her happy. Well, that stuff might have worked years and years ago when women did not have much choice except to get married and have children, but in today's world, that kind of advice isn't going to get you anywhere.
Women have choice on who they want to be with, and they make that choice based on what they feel. So, if you are still trying all of those old school methods of attracting women, then you are just going to end up frustrated when you find out that she just does not feel that way about you.
Here are 3 tips that will help you to make a woman desire you and that will get you a LOT further along than trying to win her over any other way:
1. Make her respond to you by being confident, but not cocky.
Cockiness and confidence almost always get mixed up, but if you are going to make a woman desire you, then you need to know the difference. A cocky guy comes off like he is in love with himself, while a confident guy comes off like he is worth loving. Women respond to confidence like it was going out of style. And you know what? It is. Most guys lack confidence when they are around a woman that they are really into, and if that happens, she is not going to desire you.
2. Make her desire you by being unavailable to her.
Okay, so you find a woman that you are attracted to. What's the first thing that you do? Well, if you are like most "average" guys, you will end up making it really obvious that you want her, and she will know right away that she can have you wrapped around her finger. You need to do the opposite, and make her feel like you are off limits to her. This stuff works EXTREMELY well, because it plays on the natural desire for her to want what she cannot have.
3. Women desire men that they are sexually attracted to.
They don't feel desire for the guys that they are just friends with. And they do not feel desire for guys that seem like the "brother" type of guy. No, they feel desire for guys that make them feel sexually attracted. You need to make her feel like she is attracted to you on a sexual level if she is going to end up wanting to date you.
