subject: Achieving the Goal of His Commitment [print this page] Achieving the Goal of His Commitment Achieving the Goal of His Commitment
How do you be clear that you are not in this for a fling? Can you turn a stubborn mule to be exclusive? What seals the deal for a committed relationship to bloom? Despite the purest of hearts, some men are jerks and will let a wonderful woman go because they are too ignorant to see any light in the dark but shining the idea on him is not always a big scary step or complicated process.
In the beginning of dating, achieving the goal of commitment is your primary focus to make that man you like into your man only and to do so, know that men are reluctant to budge when coerced or rushed to do what they are afraid of. Timing is important to men; nothing can be pressured or hurried, achieving the goal of his commitment takes a little time and understanding to accomplish.
Don't give him anything until he ditches his old lifestyle to make an attempt at love with you. Withholding sex at this point will tell you who is scum and which man is in it for the same reasons as you. Holding off sex for a few months seems like a scary idea but that's how it is all supposed to work. The emotional bond should be the primary focus right now to continue becoming closer.
When you finally become intimate, all those honest emotions are supposed to heighten you to that point to make the first time an incredible and a lasting memory, that's why people used to wait until their wedding night as a symbol that the love is real forever. Nothing was about raising the number of sexual partners and risk of pregnancy and STDs; connection was valued. Believe it or not, sex proves achieving the goal of his commitment is a serious matter for you.
